I'm a 19 year old university student, and have created this account to get the opinions of people other than my peers.
I am back home for the summer holidays, and have got a full time job to earn some much needed money (didn't want to work full time but this was the only job I could get). However I haven't worked for 2 of the past 4 weeks but am working full time for the next 6.
The weeks I haven't been working and have been at home, if I haven't got plans for the day I do tidying/cleaning/chores/run errands/cook dinner etc. I think it's only fair that if I'm at home, I help out as both my parents work full time.
However, I have a 17 year old brother who is on holiday after his first year at sixth form. He hasn't got a job this summer. He spends his entire time watching tv or on his laptop and doesn't do ANYTHING to help around the house. He only helps if I tell him to do a job and even then it's done hours later and usually only half heartedly.
He has got no work from college to do and no employment, so I don't think there are any excuses why he shouldn't help around the house. I feel so resentful that I have to do everything and work 5 days a week. When I've said this to my Mum, her reply is "oh everyone has that attitude so they do nothing and it's all left to me". This is not true, I feel so guilty if I don't do any housework or help that I end up doing it all so she doesn't get angry or stressed that the house is left the same way or dirtier/messier everyday.
Am I being unreasonable? I just want him to pull his weight around the house.
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mr405 · 23/07/2014 12:42
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