DH is a bit of an insomniac. Sometimes it takes him ages to get to sleep; sometimes he is awake for ages in the middle of the night. When I go out in the evening, he cannot relax and get to sleep until I get in as he is aware that I will come to bed at some point and disturb him.
I went out last night, had a few drinks with a friend and was home at 11:30. Stopped to have a snack in the kitchen and was hassled by him to get to bed. He was cross I was in late and he couldn't get to sleep. I'm going out again tonight and will probably be home about the same time. I feel like the same will happen again tonight.
I know it is a problem for him and he is a bit stressed at work right now, but am I really being selfish and unreasonable to go out 2 nights in a row until 11:30? I have offered to sleep in the spare room so he doesn't get disturbed. He doesn't go out during the week (his choice), but I sleep like a log so it wouldn't annoy me anyway.
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AIBU to go out late when DH won't get to sleep until I get home?
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HiImBarryScott · 23/07/2014 12:30
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