To worry that dh won't love a dd as much as a boy?

[StarklyDoesIt]

We were talking about having a baby and he said when I've had my blood he'll put a son in me. What if it's a girl? He hasn't even considered the possibility. Aibu to worry about his wording/attitude?

[Tortoiseonthehalfshell]

Depends, OP. Sorry for your loss, by the way. I think maybe you need to look at this differently; is he just a realist about bringing women into the world as it is?

[TravellingToad]

Nobody would be "putting a boy in me" after saying that....

[rubyslippers]

That's a very bizarre thing to say

Yes I would probe a little further - you don't get to pick the sex just by saying it

His wording is weird

Sorry ... I would be very

[happyzapper]

If he has said its a boy then im pretty sure he will be dissapointed . But remind him that you cant control the sex of your child

[Ilovenewts]

Is he on the set of game of thrones ?

[Mumof3xox]

What an odd thing to say ....

[ScrambledEggAndToast]

If my DP said that to me then he wouldn't be putting anything in me for quite some time. How rude I think you need a serious talk about both of your views regarding children and how important gender is.

[Mumof3xox]

Is it a cultural thing?

I know in some cultures boys can be valued more?

[adsy]

when I've had my blood what does that mean??

[ABlandAndDeadlyCourtesy]

Um, what?

[lettertoherms]

Do they call you khaleesi?

Did I get it? Did I get the thing?

[Batmansbuttocks]

Nice try. 2/10.

[lucidlady]

Blood = period, maybe?

Either way it is an odd thing to say.

[adsy]

Why is tortoise sorry for OP's loss?
Loss of what? Her faculties?

[MrsBoldon]

(Whispers in Sheffield accent) winters coming..

[littlewhitebag]

I assume OP means when she has finished her period they will start trying to conceive. I don't think there has been any loss - except menstrual blood perhaps.

Her DH sounds like an arse.

[fluffyraggies]

The OPs language sounds as if it stems from a different culture. OP is there pressure on you from wider family to produce sons?

[MrsWinnibago]

I don't think this OP is for real folks.

[HoneyDragon]

Have you considered adoption? You don't have to have a human baby. What about dragons?

[fluffyraggies]

Oh OK.

I tend to take things at face value.

[ClashCityRocker]

There's also a good line in shadow babies. They come out as fully grown adults though, and have slight killing tendencies.

[ChanelCristalle]

I don't understand that expression, after you've had blood? what does that mean? do you mean after your next period ?

[Mumof3xox]

I think that's what it means