Ds is 19 months and we stopped breastfeeding about a month ago, I'm pregnant and I was struggling with the feeling of feeding him, I intended to feed him until he was at least 2 ( dp was in agreement that it would be good to bf until 2 if possible).
A friend recently had a baby and ds has seen the baby breastfeeding, this has prompted ds to start talking about breastfeeding and when we were in the bath a couple of days ago he latched on, I was surprised as I assumed he would have forgotten. My colostrum has now come in and feeding ds was much less uncomfortable for me, ds has breastfed a few times since then.
It came up in conversation yesterday that ds still breastfed, a family member asked directly ( we were talking about food and how much our dc ate) the family member was really quite rude "he doesn't need it" "what about the new baby" dp joined inwwith the family member, I felt really let down by him, I'm open to having this conversation with him just tge two of us but not involving other people who have no experience of breastfeeding whilst pregnant or breastfeeding an older child or breastfeeding a toddler and newborn.
I have done some reading around tandom feeding and feeding in pregnancy, I have friends who have fed two different aged children. I know there can be challenges but I also believe there can be advantages.
Aibu to think that dp shouldn't gang up with other people and if he wants to have a discussion about breastfeeding with me he should try to read some personal accounts of how it can work feeding 2?
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to think that my dp shouldn't say negative things about me breastfeeding our toddler when we are with other people?
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