Stuck with how to word this.
Have a friend who introduced me to her work friend when we all went for lunch together. We got on well, when I told her about a place I'd been to in London recently, she asked me to tell her if I wanted to go again and she would come.
Weeks pass, I invite her and my friend to go to this place in London, my friend declines but other friend accepts. My friend cites money as a reason, so we make other arrangements to do something cost free another time. I still go with the other friend.
I've had several texts accusing me of being insensitive and unreasonable for still going with the other friend. Reasons given are: it was HER friend, she had no money so cruel of me to exclude her, she has had a difficult week and I knew that, so should have wanted to see her.
I do not feel I was unreasonable, this friend has form for getting very angry and cutting people out- but has never done it to me, I'm beginning to strongly dislike her for doing it to others. Now it seems it is my turn.
I've ignored the third message telling me how horrible I am- I've not said sorry as I'm not. But I need to know- was I being unreasonable to still go out?
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Was it unreasonable of me to accept a decline to an invitatation?
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Littleturkish · 28/06/2014 20:39
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