I am 17 weeks pregnant. DH and I have been on holiday so far for two weeks. The first week of the holiday I spent in and out of hospital with pneumonia that I brought via a chest infection from home. We are at the end of the second week now and I am exhausted, still recovering and getting preggy symptoms like heartburn, pelvis/hip/back pain, constipation.
I really just want to go home, but DH has arranged another week in another city (same country), another budget hotel. We supposedly fly tomorrow.
I have asked him several times before this if we can just go home (all flights/hotels are cancellable/refundable) but DH is extremely upset with me. He is saying that I am snubbing the holiday he has given me and that I am well now so I should just be enjoying it. He has arranged multiple dinners with friends in this other city who he hasn't seen for years and I think he really wanted to introduce them to me/announce pregnancy etc.
I am "well" but I am exhausted. It tAkes a long time to get over pneumonia, and the last thing I want are these hard beds which cause me pain so I wake frequently in the night and eating out of the mini bar because I'm too tired to go out. More expensive hotels are not an option.
He says that I am being a hypochondriac and a "victim" now and blaming my inability to do anything on pregnancy. The thing is, it's true! I am finding it hard to eat/sleep and I am so tired too. I am too hot and I put the air conditioning on in the room, but then DH gets too cold and switches it off. We are supposedly having a beach holiday but every day for the last few days has been massive humidity and storms, so we are in the room a lot together and at loggerheads.
I said I will go back without him so he can enjoy the holiday and he says that's a huge insult and attention seeking of me.
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Wanttocomehome · 16/06/2014 11:11
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