DSD is getting married later this year. She has asked DH for a contribution. After looking at figures we decided we could afford to put in £1000 towards it. This seemed like a reasonable amount to both of us, and was the same amount as we got from our respective parents when we got married, for which we were very grateful. <br><br>She has just emailed DH saying she feels he does not care about her, and if we can afford to go on holiday, we should be able to afford to pay more than a thousand. AIBU to think she is being massively ungrateful, and that Dad is not expected to fund the whole wedding these days?? Or should we be cutting back on holidays for the next year or so to pay a bigger chunk?