To keep it short but some background ...SIL is ok but always been a bit of a daddy's princess, could do no wrong , always favoured by FIL because she couldn't " manage " whereas my DH could and just got on with things . FIL died a while ago and she is now hinting heavily at going on holiday with us ...." Would be such fun !!" ( well, not for me dearie ) . She is married by the way but they seem to do their own thing as regards holidays etc. She also regularly asks for details about our grown up daughter and tries to get involved in her life , as if she is the same age ( she's nearly 60 , whereas daughter is 34 ) .... phoning her and sending her e mails etc to see if she wants to go out with her . Our daughter just ignores her though. Am I being a bitch in thinking that I do not want to start having her tag along on our holidays ? I don't think for a minute that DH will countenance this and it won't happen but even the fact that she is suggesting it has enraged me . It's as if now her father is no longer around we have to play happy families because she now wants our company . After all the years when she wasn't " available " to spend Xmas etc. with her parents ... off ski ing with friends ( because she knew we would take care of them ) I feel this is a bloody cheek .Sorry.... Just needed to vent after her phone call this morning !
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4seasons · 13/05/2014 12:12
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