My dd has just turned two. She bfs to sleep, co-sleeps and always has. Nothing settles her if she wakes except boobs and occasionally cuddles/rocking but only with me. I'm due with dc3 in October and we're moving house in September. Dp works away or is on call the majority of the time so changing things is pretty much down to me. He seems to think it'll just be easy but I think it's going to be really difficult.
I'd been hoping to co-sleep until dd was 2.5/3 when my older daughter moved to her own bed and room with no upset whatsoever. Then when I found out I was pregnant I wondered if dd might self-wean which would make things easier, but so far shes showing no signs of doing so. I have no idea whether to wait a while to see if she self-weans or if her understanding improves with age, whether to move her now so it's distinctly before baby or whether then moving house will be back to square one. On top of it all I'm extremely sick and tired and feel emotional at the prospect of dd being so upset by having to stop co-sleep (which she'll find harder than stopping breastfeeding.)
Aibu to think this is going to tough and dp is deluded to think it'll be easy? Any advice?
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to think stopping co-sleeping, stopping bf-ing and moving house with toddler before baby born = bloody scary prospect
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Sampanther · 14/04/2014 22:47
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