I have known my DSS since he was 7, by which time his parents had been divorced for several years. He is now mid 20 s. I don't think I have ever criticised his DM in front of him. His DM has 2 degrees but has only ever applied for cashier jobs. SHe used to have a drink problem but has been fine for about 15 years. My dh stopped work through illness but never failed to give them his entire pension until both kids had finished at Uni, which meant I was sole breadwinner for her and our 2 DDs. This was fine. I wanted the DSSs to be properly supported. But my DSS is constantly talking about how hard things were for their DM, how there was never any money. I really want to say that the pension must have paid rent, council tax, water and electric, and she had her salary ( not great, but he has never applied for a better paid job) and there would have been benefits, and a v supportive family nearby. Should I just carry on biting my tongue?
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