Back story, DH Nan passed away last Sunday very suddenly from a fall. On Wednesday Mil invited us round for dinner as Bil kids will be there (we don't see them much) we said will be round about 3. Mil then said she needed to sort Nan's flat out so DH asked to go with her on Saturday which was agreed. So come today we phoned as we left home and said "we're popping to asda and be we'll round at planned time" we turn up just before 3. As soon as we get there Fil already has kids jackets on to take them to watch Bil play football and Mil and Dh aunt have they coats on. They explained that they was going to nans to sort her clothes out for the funeral parlor so Dh said we'll come Aunt then turns rounds and said i don't want you there its a personal thing and that they are only going to choose clothes. Big argument started with Dh telling her to F off she then threatens to lamp him one. i step in and say it was the way she said it and was told she was grieving for her mum and cause Dh has not seen Nan for a while that we have no right to be there. They ended up going with out us and we stayed in Mil house on our own for 45 minutes when they came back aunt refused to talk to us and left without evening saying goodbye. who is BU here? Dh is going to text to say sorry regardless for his DM as it will cause problems at funeral but not sure what to say as we don't mean it. We ended up going round there later but its the way we was spoken to.
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tillyo · 30/11/2013 22:16
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