Twice now the school has surprised me with this.
- Sunday DD seems to be ill, dreadful headache, glassy eyes but no other symptoms.
Monday morning she seems totally fine, we send her to school she is v happy to go.
I email and call the school to tell them, she seemed to be v ill the day before but fine today however, she is shy and will probably not feel OK to approach a teacher yet to say she is ill. Can someone just ask her if she OK at some point to make sure, and if not I can pick her up.
NOTHING.
Pick up DD she looks horrendous, pale, red round eyes, tired, weeping, goes straight to bed when gets home and says no one asked her!
Call school, only get office staff who said she did pass on the message and someone told her to put her coat on . Didn't take it further as thought maybe they did ask her but that she did not relate that to me.
2).
DD sick sunday, off school Monday, mostly OK Monday back to school Tuesday, fine Tuesday and Tuesday night and Wed am.
Collect her Wednesday am and she is in another dreadful state, the lady has her arms round her, and as soon as she gets in the car she vomits everywhere, wailing with headache etc.
Ask her did she not tell the teacher and she said she did tell the teacher and the teacher said " don't cry".
That was it.
I do not know how to proceed with this, what is general policy?
I would expect a teacher or someone to notice she was ill as she is crying, pale, looks ill - it was obvious today, and ask her a few more questions and perhaps phone me to come and get her?
I took her to docs after and the doc was carrying her for me, I have never seen him be so nice, he was saying, you poor thing you don't look well! It was obvious she wasn't well and the teacher had spoken to her.
What do I say? Is this normal? Its just we get lots of strong messages to make sure the children go in...