My best friend emigrated to Oz earlier this year with her husband. They're going travelling dec and jan and have offered as part of a birthday present for me and they know how much I love travelling (had my kids young so didn't get to do much) they have offered to pay for my flights to Bali in Jan for 9/10 days.
I was blown away and posted here actually whether I was being unreasonable thinking about it. I spoke to dh and basically he's not happy. We both had time off to use in jan, he usually has a week off on his own, but I've still got some time to use up without sacrificing the school hols. We have two children (young) but both are at school full time.
He has said I can go but he has been in a mood ever since I told him, I told him it wasn't worth out marriage if he really didn't want me to go but I know he doesn't want to be portrayed as the bad guy stopping me from going so now I don't know what to do. He has said if I tell my friend I'm not going he will pay for my flight so now I'm almost trapped?! I almost wish I didn't want to go but this is a chance of a lifetime, and I have the spending money saved what would others do aibu ?
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Am I? Or is my dh? I need honest opinions as I really dont know!
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doublechocchip · 14/10/2013 10:32
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