I was on the phone to DP to have a quick chat and say goodnight, and we got onto the subject of when we move in together. He seemed to think that as soon as we find a house we like, we can just move in straight away. I started explaining to him that it's not quite as simple as that, and he started moaning and not paying attention. Bearing in mind that I am pregnant and I have a minor learning difficulty which means I can struggle with social interactions, I got upset that he wasn't listening and started crying. He immediately began shouting at me, so I said that I didn't deserve it and hung up on him.
He then texted me and said 'You are being horrible to me when all I am is upset that I can't be with you. It is not fair. I love you xxxx I feel like I'm being punished for wanting nothing more than to be with my child as she is growing up. I can't sleep now anyway. Good night xxxx' so I apologised for overreacting and said that I was going to bed because I felt stressed and that isn't good for the baby, and he just responded with more of the above.
I understand that he is upset but when I am pregnant and sad surely he should be able to keep his emotions under wraps until I feel a bit calmer? Also we both did something wrong, but I was the only one to apologise and he ignored it.
Aibu or has he been a bit silly?
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TheAlyssWithTheMewlingQuim · 14/10/2013 00:32
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