Have name changed in case I get flamed for this. In AIBU for traffic.
I had a conversation with a friend recently that has played on my mind a bit and i wanted to know of i am the one out of line.
friend and i are both at uni. Friend was telling me about a house party recently. She did not know anyone at the party and got'black out drunk' to the extent where she can't remember what took place and subsequently passed out on the floor in this house.
i felt that this is a ridiculously stupid thing to do and in a friendly sort of way just implied that by getting as drunk as she did she was leaving herself very vulnerable to having things stolen and worse.
she went completely mental, said i was victim blaming and didn't speak to me for a short while.
to me it was never any sort of feminist debate over what shed done and just me looking out for her as a friend - she's from a tiny village and is at uni in a big city and i do worry about her.
so was i being unreasonable by what i said? I wouldn't like to think i was as i think its a pretty horrible thing to accuse someone of being and i was just trying to look out for her.
apologies for any spelling mistakes, im on my phone.
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doodah246 · 10/09/2013 11:11
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