Been friends with A for 6 years, meet up every month or so with another friend (let's call her friend B).
A is getting married soon. We have heard all about the wedding plans. B and I were hoping for an invite.
Nope- not getting invited!
Saw her last week, 160 people are going its not a sit down meal, so it's not like there isn't space for 2 more chairs/ the expense of 2 more people.
I'm gutted. I really thought we were friends & wanted to share her special day. B & I both like her OH and are really happy for her.
So- am I being unreasonable to not give her a wedding present? She told us she only wants money as they don't have their own place yet & will be moving quite a bit for a year or two, so they don't want lots of 'stuff'. (Which she could store at her parents big house)
I don't think she understands that wedding presents are supposed to set you up in life, not provide you with cash.
Do I send them a congrats card just? Can't bring myself to ever give money for wedding present, vouchers at the most.
Or do I just not bother to arrange to see her again & let the friendship go? (we've been forgotten about quite a bit since the new man came on the scene)
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milktraylady · 08/07/2013 07:24
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