My Sister In Law is getting married next year and my wife is going to be a bridesmaid. We have twins and a 3rd who will be 2 and 5 months and 1 and 5 months.
We are all invited to the wedding ( good start lol)
Whilst discussing the wedding Sister in law said " you will just have to look after the kids whilst bridesmaid duties are being carried out"
I will never have a problem looking after my children but think that she had not thought about the situation.
We live an hour and a half away, so I can't look after the children at home. There is no way children can be looked after at the brides house, as there will be too much going on and not enough room.
I am left to look after the children for 3-4 hours before the wedding and get them ready for the wedding with nowhere to go.
My wife says forget about it but I am all too aware that we will get to the date and I will be left to just get on with it and will have to struggle on the day.
I have said if a solution cannot be found I would rather stay at home with the children than go and have a struggle of a day.
Am I being unreasonable on 2 counts- one with my sister in law for her couldn't care less attitude, and one with my wife for saying just ignore it?
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Ilovemyself · 02/07/2013 22:09
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