I'm going away next week (for a week).
I live in a humble but pleasant 1 bedroom flat.
My friend lives in a squalid studio.
When I told her I was going away for a week, she hinted at me letting her stay at mine while I was gone.
Knowing her, she will ask directly as the time comes round.
Is it unreasonable to say no?
I feel like such a mean bitch - it would cost me nothing (I would lose savings on water/electricity while I was gone, but who cares, it wouldn't be a lot) and could be a nice treat for her.
At the same time, it's my home, I like my privacy, and while I understand where she lives is grim, a part of me thinks she should try a bit harder to get out of where she currently is (she doesn't work) if she dislikes it that much.
If it was a case of she is homeless, it would be totally different.
WWYD? Am I being mean? How can I say no?!
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AIBU to not let good friend stay at mine?
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waddlecakes · 26/06/2013 13:25
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