Braving the AIBU forum.. I genuinely want to know if IABU and hope this doesn't go against MN talk guidelines. Sensitive subject I know but I want to hear what you think.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-23004956
Personally, I totally agree with the fact this teacher has been prosecuted and I think he should serve every single day of the five and a half year sentence. To make it clear if the situation was different and this was a female teacher I would expect her to be prosecuted too.
In my eyes all of the points below tantamount to child abuse, grooming and a criminal offence. Made worse by the fact he was in a position of influence and trust:
- sexually kissing a 14 year old girl in the classroom, that you teach her in
- starting to have sex with a 15 year old pupil in her uniform in your car, hotels and your own marital home
- sending what sounds to be sexually explicit texts, picture messages, tweets and emails
- calling her mother and lying about rumours which he knew were true. Making it look like her daughter was making it up and making the mother feel bad about her daughters behaviour
- taking a child out of the country without her parents consent, on your wife's stolen passport
- and god only knows what else!
I don't care how mature she may look or sound. I think the whole "this is a misunderstood love story" is a load of BS. I don't care if she agreed to go to France or willingly slept with him, his still in the wrong. Bottom line is he was the adult, in a position of trust and influence. It was his responsibility to put a stop to this, tell the school or her parents about her crush. But he didn't, instead he took advantage of a young vulnerable teenage pupil with a crush on her teacher.
In my opinion his a criminal and should be locked up for every day of the five and a half years. Adults sleeping with children can't not use the excuse "ohhhhh but it was/is love". Where do we draw the line 12, 13 years old? Why any parent would think his sentence is harsh s beyond me. Would they be happy to hand their 14/15 year old children over to 30 year old adults?
Ladies and gentlemen (I know there are one or two out there), am I been unreasonable?