I've been with DP for 2 years, he moved in with me in January. I'm very houseproud, have spent a lot of time and money making the house I bought 8 years ago look and feel like a home. To say that DP is less houseproud is an understatement, but he cooks / pulls is weight in other areas, so it's not a huge issue.
Through him I made a great female friend, whose mum recently passed away. She suggested going on a girly weekend away to have something to look forward to after several months of crap for her.
DP asked if I minded him hosting a poker match at our house when I was away - the idea was to invite three friends of his whom I know. I said no problem - just don't invite people until I'm sure when we're definitely going away - date is only provisional at this point.
I speak to him today, a week on from this and find out that not only has he steamed ahead and already invited people on the provisional date, but he has invited 10 blokes, 7 of whom I have never met or even heard of!
I have to admit that the thought of people I don't know in my home when I am away makes me feel really uncomfortable. DP said that I should trust his judgment and it's not that I think he would invite anyone "dodgy", it's just the thought of so many strangers amongst my personal possessions that makes me feel really uneasy. I'm trying my best to see it as "our" home and let him get on with it without my interference, but I know I'm going to feel awkward about this the entire time I'm away! AIBU?
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To not want DP to have a 10-man poker match at home...
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estrella79 · 16/06/2013 19:48
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