Apologies if this is long, and I won't be able to return to it until tomorrow but I do appreciate some input.
A little background, my bil is a prat in general, he's like a big child for the most part, drinks to much, sulks like a five year old if he can't get his way with sil. They never had children of their own.
He stopped speaking to me a while ago after I deleted him from my Facebook, I got fed up of him posting racist nonsense so he went. This has been no loss whatsoever, sil and bil don't live locally so we only see them a few times a year.
My dd adores sil so when she's over and staying with my parents in law she spends a lot of time with her. Dd is 15 and has many health issues which have resulted in her being very socially anxious. She's an amazing girl though, she loves books and comics and is a general geek.
Today sil and bil took her to tesco with them while they picked a few things up, dd had some money of her own and found a reduced hobbit lego set in the toy aisle. She has collected a couple of these and has her own money so she excitedly picked it up and called me to tell me all about it. All I could hear in the background was bil berating her. He was telling her how she was nearly 16, she shouldn't be buying toys, her friends would laugh at her etc etc. I could hear her voice cracking as she got more and more upset and in the end I told her that he was talking nonsense and if that's what she wanted to spend her money on then why the hell not.
What has really really wound me up though is this is the same 42 year old man who spent all of yesterday afternoon shooting a bb gun at targets in the in laws garden. The same one that flies little toy helicopters around the house and buys big track toys to play with from boot sales. I want to say "how bloody dare you speak to her like that". Other half isn't impressed either.
Am I being unreasonable to think that if a kid wants to buy herself a bit of Lego based on a movie she adores as a collector piece for display them it's nobody else bloody business?
Sorry that was long. I'm still dining and wanted to get it down.
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plainjaney · 26/05/2013 22:38
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