A good friend has a business idea. It is a shop so will involve a hell of a lot of financial input and is a huge undertaking. The shop would be based on a hobby that she has had for years and passionate about.
She asked me what I thought of her idea. She said that she wanted my honest opinion on whether it would work because she was nervous about risking so much money. I said, in a nice way, that I didnt think that her idea would be financially viable. Its hard to describe why without posting her idea, but if you imagine a soft play centre that was only open to 7's and over, so no day time trade only weekends, holidays and parties. Also, imagine the soft play centre was over priced. It isnt that but you get the idea.
I suggested a tweak to her idea (so opening the soft play to under 7's using that analogy) and she went mad at me. She said that I was being negative, pissing on her chips by saying her idea was shit (I didnt!) and wanting her to fail in her "dream"! I dont want her to fail, thats precisely why I suggested a slight change in the idea so it would make money. I really cant see how her idea in its current form would make anything at all, apart from her bankrupt. But if her FB feed is anything to go by, she is now determined to go ahead with her idea as it is, and will be borrowing money to do it. :(
If she didnt want my honest opinion why did she ask? Why do people do that? This isnt the first time I have had this, and why I made a point of asking her "Are you sure you want my honest opinion" and she said yes, as she valued what I thought. Clearly she only valued it if I said what she wanted her hear!
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Bogeyface · 21/05/2013 14:16
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