I am so gutted to be honest.
My H has a very demanding job. I always support him and am used to him working late all the time. He enjoys his job and is very good at it and I am happy that he's finally in a place where he wants to be.
However we never have any time to ourselves. We go out roughly 3 times a year. On our anniversary, his birthday and sometimes on my birthday (it's 1st Jan so a pain in the arse date) I don't blame him that we don't go out as I am the one who doesn't feel comfortable to leave or DD with a babysitter I only like to leave her with a member of family or if we go out during the day with a close friend.
My family is far away and his side of the family hardly ever help us out so we only get a chance to go out on a special occasion.
So tonight our DD is at a sleepover with one of her close friends for her birthday. She's very independent and I know that she'll be very happy there so there's no worries that we'll have to get her later on in the evening or anything like that.
I am really pissed off that he won't leave work at a decent time so we could just go out for an hour and have a glass of wine and a chat just to get out of the house for a change... Have some grownup time together...
Am I just being a needy, sad person? Cos that's how I feel at the moment...
I probably just should've organised a girly night out instead of hoping he would take this opportunity...
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To be really angry that my H is working late when it's the first time in a year that we are child free
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BunnyLane · 22/03/2013 18:56
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