I'm a regular poster of whom has name changed due to having a few chums & family on here.
Anyway i will get to the point, I'm constantly inundated with guests at my house and I'm finding it too much and hardly having any time alone with my partner.
It started with having my mum round every evening due to my partner dropping her off at work, but she has started to get here earlier & earlier each day. She arrived before 5pm yesterday when she doesn't even leave until gone 9. She moans tirelessly about smelling of our cooking before work and is always making me massage her back or legs and if i don't do it im called selfish.
Not only do i have that but i always have my best friend turn up every single day without fail, no matter what the weather. At first this was just in the week but now its at weekends too. She stays from school drop off to school pick up and if I say im busy she just turns up later in the day instead. I do love my mum and friend very dearly but they are such easily offended type of people and although i try to deter them it never works or i get the cold shoulder and an angry talking to!
I feel stuck in a cycle i cannot stop aibu to have had enough of people being at my home. Even my dc are not having time alone with us anymore.
Please help how do i cut down their visits without being outright rude?
Was looking forward to decorating this weekend but my friend is turning up with all her kids to go to the park .
From 9 until 3, my friend is here and from 5 until 6 my mother is here and ive just about had enough. How can i politely say in busy, ive tried "im busy today" and they turn up regardless or continually phone !
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AppleBlossomArseCheeks · 19/03/2013 16:43
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