to think my ex is an absolute fucking bastard of the first order

[11Plustrauma]

DD got her 11plus results today. She did really very well for her, put in a load of effort, and will get in to a grammar school. Just not the one he wants.

He said, in front of her, "Shit. I'm disappointed".

She has howled all day and it will take a great deal to pick her up again.

He is a bastard, yes or no?

[NOTE FROM MNHQ: Although we're sure it was meant as a joke, we have edited the thread title and OP to remove some beyond-the-pale violent imagery. Some subsequent posts making reference to the same imagery have also been deleted.]

[ohfunnyhoneyface]

That sucks- was she ok until he said that?

[11Plustrauma]

Fucker. Utter fucker. She was getting 20% in september, to have pulled up from that to what she got is amazing and she worked (and me with her) so so hard. He is a total and utter wankbadger fucknugget BASTARD.

[brainonastick]

Yanbu. I hope he is thinking frantically about ways to make it up to her?

[11Plustrauma]

She was OK - disappointed, but pleased enough that she'd go to her 2nd choice. Then he said "shit I'm disappointed" and started to talk about special circumstances and appeals. There ARE no special circs. There is not grounds to appeal. She just missed by 2 or 3 marks. So fucking what. The world hasn't stopped and the sun will still rise in the morning.

He is going in to see the head to "discuss her options". I have told him to rock on I'm not going with him. Fucker bastard cunt.

Have been being all restrained and happy all day and can only vent on here. BASTARDBASTARDCUNT

[11Plustrauma]

FFS if she'd got 2% and tried her best I'd still say I was proud of her and she'd done well. And she really really really did try so so hard the hours of time and effort we put in were phenomenal. But he never bothered his fucking arse of course.

Cunt.

[11Plustrauma]

I have never never never been so angry in all my fucking life. I seriously would struggle not to be physically violent to him if he was here right now. She has HOWLED and I mean HOWLED over this.

[badtemperedaldbitch]

Don't worry about him, coach your dd to be immune go such comments. Say 'he may be disappointed but then it's not his life, is it sweetie? I'm incredibly proud of what you did and I know that you have worked hard '

Depending on your relationship you could even say ' I was so disappointed in him that we got divorced'

That way she knows the problem is him not her.

[11Plustrauma]

I am so so cross. She's not academically brilliant and she put in so so much work and effort and for him to piss on her chips like that is just disgusting. I have run out of swear words. She's eating ice cream and has had pizza and fruit shoots (sorry MN) and he can go and fuck himself. cunt. cunt . cunt

[TaggieCampbellBlack]

Twat.

But bloody well done to her (and you!) for passing.

[11Plustrauma]

He can't understand why I don't want to go to see the head and discuss her options. He should be glad because if I was in the same room as him I would fucking kill him. bastard. bastard. bastard. bastarsd.

[11Plustrauma]

well he's not a fucking brain surgeon or a rocket scientist and so fucking what who fucking cares. normally we get on ok but omg on this he is so fucking blinkered. he wants DD and DS both to be fucking brainboxes and DD just isn't. not everyone is. so fuck. He told me I have no ambition for her. he can go fuck.

[Aethelfleda]

You just build that girl up, OP. Tell her you love her, you're proud of her, and she did a bl

[11Plustrauma]

I have tried all day and it's so hard. my mum is so proud of her and even mum and dad's very elderly next door nieghbour came up with a well done card with a tenner in it for her. but that fucking bastard cunt never ever said well done. cunt bastard i fucking hate his fucking guts.

[11Plustrauma]

Hazel = tell me what he's done and I'll do yours if you do mine?

[11Plustrauma]

she said "I've let you and daddy down I wish I had worked harder" and my heart just broke.

She's fucking 11. She's a baby. She didn't let me down. And he's a cunt.

[corlan]

He is a cocksucking son of a wankbadger. He sounds like one of those people that just want to suck the joy out of everything and make it all about him.

Congratulations to your DD.

[11Plustrauma]

It would be a pleasure Hazel. The way I feel tonight he has no chance.