To get a lift home by my friend and husband

[mrsL1984]

And be ignored by my friend while she chatted to others and checked her Facebook?

[WorraLiberty]

Errr YABU?

YANBU?

I don't know how you could possibly be either?

Did you chat to your friend and did she pointedly ignore you while chatting to the other people in the car?

If so, you might have done something to upset her without realising?

[13Iggis]

Not nearly enough details to decide who was being rude! (Maybe you were imposing? Maybe she was on mumsnet not fb, which is always understandable?)
And whose husband was it, yours or hers?

[AgentZigzag]

Were you sat in the back?

It can be difficult holding a conversation with someone over the noise of the engine.

What's she like with you normally?

[mrsL1984]

She offered lift this morning due to snow! Was her husband!

[shesariver]

A few more details might be essential handy.

[mrsL1984]

She was on Facebook as she showed her something on it! Her husband chatted but not her! Perhaps I have upset her! Yes I was in the back

[AgentZigzag]

I'm confused now!

What was her husband?

[threesocksmorgan]

don't get the problem

[deleted203]

It is completely unreasonable to be on FB whilst giving someone a life home. I ban all mobile phones in my car. If I am giving you a lift then you have the courtesy to speak to me whilst we are driving - rather than texting your more interesting mates. (Aimed at teenage DCs mostly). Appreciate that presumably her DH was driving, but she's still damn rude to be on FB.

[CloudsAndTrees]

So she was chatting to her husband and she checked her phone while on a journey?

I'm struggling to see the problem here.

[PatsysPyjamas]

Are you drunk?

[mrsL1984]

Normally we chat about everything and nothing! No issues in conversation! Just seemed she was preoccupied and it felt like I was invisible

[WorraLiberty]

When you say she chatted to others...do you mean on FB or were there other people in the car?

Where were you getting a lift home from?

[AgentZigzag]

'She was on Facebook as she showed her something on it!'

As she showed who something on it?

[AgentZigzag]

OP?

Was alcohol involved in wherever you were?

Hmmm?

[mrsL1984]

Her husband was driver! He picked us up she dropped me at home! I understand her talking to her husband but not once she aimed conversation at me! She was in Facebook! Her husband chatted away quite the thing

[MissyMooandherBeaverofSteel]

If you had been chatting all evening maybe she just ran out of things to say?

[mrsL1984]

No no booze

[mrsL1984]

Coming home from work! She was looking at a fb page of a hotel where they want to stay

[HollyBerryBush]

Shes given you a lift, your complaining she isnt entertaining you through the journey. Get a bus next time.

[NoelHeadbands]

Why would that make you unreasonable?

Presumably you mean was SHE unreasonable?

[tethersend]

Was Sharon there?

Was anybody TRexing?

[mrsL1984]

I have my own car but due to bad snow she offered to collect me! We often car share to save coatings etc which isn't issue! I did volunteer the bus but she didn't feel it was appropriate for me to get the bus

[MissyMooandherBeaverofSteel]

Her husband picked you up and ran you home and you are upset because, despite this kind deed, she wasn't chatty enough? If thats right then yabvu.

[toddlerama]

Just thank her for the lift and stop being so demanding.