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Copped off with a man half my age last night, is that Horribly Wrong?

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SolidGoldBrass · 26/01/2013 21:49

Or AIBU to be boasting about it Grin? Oh BTW I am 48, he was 25 so put your pitchforks down...

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andtheycalleditbunnylove · 26/01/2013 21:50

not wrong unless he's under 18...

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AgentZigzag · 26/01/2013 21:51

Course not!

did he have firm buttocks?

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AgentZigzag · 26/01/2013 21:51

don't know why I asked that, of COURSE he did

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HopAndSkip · 26/01/2013 21:52

As long as he was good looking as well, then go ahead and boast! Where did you meet? (Hoping you're not going to say work!!)

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AlwaysReadyForABlether · 26/01/2013 21:52

Way to go!

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SolidGoldBrass · 26/01/2013 21:54

He was very cute. Met in a fetish club... I had in fact spent about the first hour of the evening feeling growly and sorry for myself and wondering whether I had in fact crossed the line to 'invisible' older woman and should go home and buy a tartan shopping trolley and one of those plastic rain hats.

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HighBrows · 26/01/2013 21:55

Envy I'm really envious! Do you have that glow?!

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KatyTheCleaningLady · 26/01/2013 21:55

Someone might have a fetish for tartan shopping trolleys and plastic rain hats.

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LaurieFairyCake · 26/01/2013 21:55

I'm torn between thinking wow, bet he was hot and eeeeuuuuwww.... my best mates kid is 23 and I just can't imagine it Confused

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SolidSnake · 26/01/2013 21:56

Lucky! Grin

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floweryblue · 26/01/2013 21:56

Get the trolley and rain hat, it is a fetish club, you might get even more entusiastic action!

As long as he is over the age of consent there is nothing horribly wrong.

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StanleyLambchop · 26/01/2013 21:57

Sometimes horribly wrong can just feel so good! Congrats on your pulling power!

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HoHoHoNoYouDont · 26/01/2013 21:57

Wants to be SGB's new best friend and go clubbing with her next weekend Grin

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cuttingpicassostoenails · 26/01/2013 21:57

It is, indeed, very wrong. The poor lamb is probably seeking therapy as I type. You should be deeply ashamed.

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TheFallenNinja · 26/01/2013 21:58

Fair play Smile

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cuttingpicassostoenails · 26/01/2013 21:59

PS...shopping trolleys don't have to be tartan. I have a very trendy pink one, with large blue flowers on it.

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marriedinwhite · 26/01/2013 22:00

Maybe YABU about admitting to the fettish club (what is a fettish club?). I'm a bit shocked about "copping off with a stranger" but then you lot know I'm an old prude Grin.

YANBU to be pleased about pulling a 25 year old though. Well done you. Hope it was worth it and gave you a flush of confidence and inner warmth.

Goes to pour another glass of wine and quietly think about what SGB has been getting up to. Bloody hell.

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countrykitten · 26/01/2013 22:02

'Copped off'...really....?

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TheNebulousBoojum · 26/01/2013 22:02

You had sex with someone and you both enjoyed it.
He was well above the legal limit, I wonder if he knew how old you were, or cared?
What's not to like?

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McNewPants2013 · 26/01/2013 22:03

Yanbu you are now a cougar :)

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SolidSnake · 26/01/2013 22:04

SolidBrass You need to share your pulling trips, you can't keep that power all to yourself Grin

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SolidGoldBrass · 26/01/2013 22:04

Definitely a bit of a 'glow' today, or at least a lot of reminiscent smirking. I also realised that I had really missed going clubbing - after I lost my reviews column I stopped bothering. BUt now I'm writing a novel about BDSM and clubs, I can call it research Grin.

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MumVsKids · 26/01/2013 22:05

Envy

That is all.

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Herrena · 26/01/2013 22:06

It is Horribly Wrong. Horribly. I'm retching just thinking about it.

Grin

Now does 'copping off' mean still just mean snogging, or has the meaning evolved into something more sordid these days?

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LaurieFairyCake · 26/01/2013 22:07

What are clubs like now?

I haven't been in one for ten years - bloody hell, that's a looong time.

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