DH has been working late most of this week due to the nature of his work - lot of evening events etc. Fine, I can cope with the help of wine (we have 2 DC, 2.5yo & 8month old).
Today we were all going to go to the full day event he is involved with, it would be fun for me & the kids to see some of our friends, they can run around etc. I was especially looking forward to the event DH had got me a ticket for, which started at 1.45pm. It was my bit of kids-free time, much looked forward to.
That was the plan...
To cut a very long story short, he faffed around so much in the morning that we were too late for me to go to my event, and I got stuck with the kids while he had a meeting straight after we arrived.
I feel very taken for granted today. He knows I generally sort everything out when we're going somewhere (ie feed the kids, get bags ready etc), except today he was meant to cook me & him lunch ,but due to the enormous faffing, he didn't have time. Nor did he tell me he wouldn't have time while he was faffing upstairs - I could've had a quick sandwich had I known he would be so late.
I'm also pissed off that he made us late for the event, so I didn't get my kids-free time (sorry about that phrase, not sure how else to describe it!). I hardly ever have time on my own (am SAHM) so this hour or so meant quite a lot to me.
I came back home to put the kids to bed, and DH is still at the event. He's called & texted asking if something's wrong - I'm bemused by the fact he doesn't have a clue why!
I need some perspective here - AIBU to still be upset about this?
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to still be upset & angry with DH? He doesn't seem to know what's wrong
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BobbysBeardOfWonder · 26/01/2013 20:21
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