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to feel guilty about sleeping with someone else's husband

29 replies

Justforlaughs · 10/12/2012 11:51

in a dream? Sounds ridiculous I know, but I just had this dream. I don't fancy the man at all, do other people have dreams like this?

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WorraLorraTurkey · 10/12/2012 11:58

Yes they're quite random and make me wonder what's going on in my head Xmas Grin

I dreamed I slipped into my DS's classroom and stole his teacher's chicken nuggets. Then I ran far away (miles and miles) and hid between some rocks...just gently stroking the box.

Next thing, I was in the school playground again and she was crying her eyes out so I have them back to her and we hugged.

I've never been able to look the woman in the eye since then Blush

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WorraLorraTurkey · 10/12/2012 11:59

*gave

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ChocolateCoins · 10/12/2012 12:00

I had a dream about sleeping with DPs brother! Twice! Blush

I know what you mean about feeling guilty. Each time it played on my mind for a few days after. I told DP and he thought it was hilarious!

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GreenyEyes · 10/12/2012 12:21

I dream my husband has cheated on me and then go into a bad mood with him

For cheating on me, in MY dream.

Insane.

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rainbow2000 · 10/12/2012 12:22

I had a dream teh other night about having a 3some with Rhona and Laurel out of Emmerdale,i was mortified.Xmas Blush

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Theicingontop · 10/12/2012 12:25

GreenyEyes I do the same thing. I tell OH and he apologises on behalf of his dreamself Grin

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freddiefrog · 10/12/2012 12:28

I had a really fruity one about my neighbour's husband a few months ago and I still can't look him in the eye

They're mostly really weird and random though

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Indith · 10/12/2012 12:29

I have had guilt free sex with various men in my dreams Grin. I often do the thing of being furious wuth dh though and waking up in a strop with him.

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scaevola · 10/12/2012 12:31

Dreams are random and beynod your control.

The feeling of guilt is a fraction what would accrue if you were to do this in RL. Worth remembering how this troubled you if you do ever find yourself put in temptation.

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MistletoeAndTomHardyPlease · 10/12/2012 12:34

I do it all the time.

I also dreamt DH was cheating on me and would have me back and it was so angry with him for days in real life as it was so realistic!

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kakapo · 10/12/2012 12:36

Hahaha Worra! Especially the stroking...

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ToriaHosannaHeadacheChelsea · 10/12/2012 13:55

I dreamed I was having an affair with someone DH went to uni with. In the dream I clearly remember sitting on our sofa with him kissing my neck.

The next morning's breakfast was awkward given he was staying with us for the weekend...

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quesadilla · 10/12/2012 14:16

If my experience is in any way representative then its totally normal and nothing to worry about. In the past year I've dreamed about having sex with a) a former colleague who is gay and not particularly attractive b) my DH's brother who I can't stand c) a random guy who I work with but barely know to nod to and d) the father of a schoolfriend who I haven't seen for over 20 years (and would now be well into his seventies).

I've never had a sexy dream about anyone I actually fancied in my life... its always totally random people and guaranteed to make you feel excruciatingly embarrassed if/when you next see them.

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AlienRefucksLooksLikeSnow · 10/12/2012 14:17

I slept with Steve Mcdonald out of coronation street, then that twat Dan off of daybreak, in dreams, I hasten to add!god knows what all that means?!!

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baublesandbaileys · 10/12/2012 14:20

the hottest dream sex is always with the ones you find least attractive in real life, they you wake up feeling very confused! I do anyway!

Its always with celebs I really dislike and don't find attractive but in my dreams it's the best sex ever!

I never have sex dreams about anyone I actually fancy!

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MistletoeAndTomHardyPlease · 10/12/2012 14:20

Why do we always have sexy dreams with mingers?!

I've said this before but all my sex dreams have been with awful people but then I dreamt about Tom Hardy and we played on the xbox?! Confused

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Notmadeofrib · 10/12/2012 14:30

I have a dream obsession it would seem with a guy I went to school with (looong time ago). I'm always getting off with/shagging him in my dreams. Weird thing is I couldn't have cared less for him when I was is school.

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VerlaineChasedRimbauds · 10/12/2012 14:34

I had an affair with Barack Obama Grin in my dream. I confessed to my DP who seemed rather upset and asked"why?" to which I responded: "He's a very natty dresser". "But it's just a suit" wailed DP.

I told my DP about the dream, which he did find funny fortunately.

On the following Valentine's Day (not in a dream) I had an unsigned card with a question mark on it. The envelope came with an American stamp and a presidential seal Grin.

A couple of nights ago I had a very complicated dream where I had had an affair with an ex, then woke up from the dream (except I was still asleep) and spent ages trying to decide whether or not it had been a dream, including discussing it with a friend. I was relieved (and exhausted) when I finally woke up!

The same night I woke myself up trying to catch a baby (I sat up in bed and flung out my arm) who had been perched precariously on a work surface.

Perhaps I should examine my diet.

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ChaoticforlifenotjustChristmas · 10/12/2012 14:48

Well at least you lot get to have sex Xmas Hmm

The last few times I've had a 'sex' dream it stops just as we get to the sex bit, either I wake up or something happens to stop it.



snot fair.

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ClippedPhoenix · 10/12/2012 14:54

Well I had it off with a whole rugby team the other week greedy Grin

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Arcticwaffle · 10/12/2012 14:59

I've also had a dreamtime relationship with Barack Obama (along with half the world's population, it seems).

And last nght I dreamt about developments with my colleague, which is awkward cos we have our work night out tonight.

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cuillereasoupe · 10/12/2012 15:02

I had one with Fidel Castro Xmas Blush

still, better than Cameron I suppose!

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MrsTerrysChocolateOrange · 10/12/2012 15:06

This is so weird. Last night I dreamed I cheated on my ex-DH with a friend of my ex-BF. Goodness knows where DH was in all this, must have been a dream from before I met him. I wish the sex had been a) good and b) with someone I find attractive.

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LalyRawr · 10/12/2012 15:08

GreenyEyes I did the exact same thing about a month ago! I was really bitchy with OH and he obviously asked why, I went to explain and then realised 'Oh shit, it was a dream!'

Now whenever I'm angry he says 'Did that actually happen or were you dreaming again?'

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