AIBU to be getting myself in such a mess over this (re loss of sentimental items)

(128 Posts)
WhereTheWildOnesSnow Sat 08-Dec-12 10:37:09

2 days ago I lost/misplaced 3 rings, my engagement ring, my wedding ring and a ring passed onto me from my grandma that was made with my mums ashes.
I usually wear all 3 but due to health problems my fingers have been sore so have been taking them off indoors, I haven't been anywhere so they must be here somewhere.
I have pulled the whole place apart, my gran died earlier in the year and gave me the ashes ring, I feel terrible, I can't stop crying, I literally feel like I must be being punished, I am tired of bad stuff happening, I feel sick. Do I need to "get over it" I am going from rationally thinking they can't have disappeared to thinking they must have.
A lot has happened this year, my gran was diagnosed with cancer and had died within 6 weeks then I suffered a miscarriage, I felt like I was coming through the other side after a tough time and a long history of depression, now I feel a mess.

This has probably gone on far too long but even if noone reads it, it felt good to get it down, and thanks to anyone who does manage to read it.

Now back to searching!

jteee Mon 10-Dec-12 00:42:25

Try the sink and shower waste pipes too - they often have some secrets in their U bend...

TalkativeJim Mon 10-Dec-12 01:55:55

Brilliant news OP!!! grin

ChippingInAWinterWonderland Mon 10-Dec-12 02:42:52

Brilliant news grin

Thank god you looked so thoroughly in the bin!!

<Sorry WTWOSjnr!!>

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