Background: split with ex 6 months ago- cheating bastard. In the time since split he has seen dd every 2-3 weeks although has gone 4 weeks without seeing her at times. He has chosen to move 200+ miles away (initially to be with OW but then they split up). Arrangements have been that he comes for the weekend, I was actually letting him stay at my house for a while, before he became unbearable.
So, now that he is settled in a "serious relationship" with another woman(!) who he has been seeing three months he wants to:
a) introduce her to dd (I'm fairly certain this has already happened last week behind my back but he won't admit to it)
b) take her to stay at new woman's house for weekends - he will come and pick her up, bring her back etc. (he has no proper home of his own, lives in digs)
AIBU to not want to allow this??
Firstly, the travelling is an issue for poor dd in the car for 3 hours each way. Also, I can't stress enough that he is nowhere near a hands-on dad. He won't even change nappies and as soon as dd starts saying "no" to him, he can't handle it. So I am concerned that his relationship with dd is not close enough yet that she will be fine with just daddy and a strange woman. I just can't cope with the thought of him letting this woman do everything for my baby, which I know is going to happen. And the thought of my lovely girl being sad or wondering where mummy is.
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AIBU?
to object to ex taking 2 year old dd 3 hours away to stay at his girlfriend's house?
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Igotdaboobies · 19/11/2012 14:50
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