I posted a week ago about my DH changing his plans with his kids so I couldn't go out. I just wanted to ask her if IABU before he returns.
DH and I moved here about a yr ago, its a 30 min drive from where we were before which was about a 5 min drive from where his ex lives. We moved here just before DD was born as its a bigger house and cheaper and made perfect sense to us. Before we moved DH and his ex always split the picking up/dropping off DSDs (10 and 11) but in the whole year since we've been here ex has dropped off/picked up maybe 5 times.
DH keeps moaning about how he feels like he's doing all the running about and I say to suggest making it fairer to ex. When we moved here first he asked if she could collect once and she said no as he chose to move away from the area which he accepted and that's how things have been ever since.
Our DD is 10moths and i had a sleepless night with her last night so DH said he'd get his ex to collect DSDs tonight so he could be here to do bathtime and bedtime which he almost always misses during the week as the girls have clubs etc to go to. I've had a grizzly DD and bored DSD2 all afternoon as DSD1 was at a party. He said he'd be no later than 5:30 and then turned up at 6:15 and announces he's taking the girls back as their mum has her friend over.
AIBU to be a bit annoyed that I am yet again bottom of the pile? For once i want him to stand up to her and tell her that while its great that she has a friend over he has promised his DW a break and he has a DD at home who deserves his attention too.
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feel let down by DH again.
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ilikelongnaps · 17/11/2012 18:38
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