OK, some background first....Where we live, the roads are hilly and windy. In heavy traffic the drivers stop-start like crazy, throwing standing passengers around. I know the traditional view is that children should give up their seats for adults but I worry about young children standing on buses because their heads are at seat height and it would be really easy for them to hit their heads or loose a tooth etc.
I was on a busy bus this morning when mum and her three young boys (roughly 3, 4 and 5) got on the bus. There were no seats left. She started to give them instructions on how to hold tight to the poles etc. After a short delay I offered up my (single) seat so that she could sit with the little one on her lap. Once I had offered my seat, the two girls opposite also volunteered their seats so that, in the end, the 3 boys sat on a 2-person seat, with mum sitting opposite on the single seat (she offered it back to me but I was happy standing).
Now I was happy to offer my seat but I got the very strong impression that, had I not offered my seat up, no one else would have either. Mainly because when the boys got on, everyone looked away and did the 'I can't see you thing' that commuters do.
So, my question is AIBU to expect that adults should give up their seats on a bus for children?
(Oh, and is there a 'magic' age when children should stand for adults instead?)
PS If I disappear from the thread halfway through, it's because I'm asleep. I will come back....
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ScroobiousPip · 29/09/2010 09:10
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