She moved to an area a little way away, probably about 10 - 15 mins drive, about 3 years ago. At first we all made the effort to go visit, she would come into our area to see us, it was give and take. We were very close then, I was her bridesmaid.
Since then however, she has had a baby, and I remained single while all our other close friends had kids. This never really bothered me, but I think subconsciously it did her (and the others too probably) as she seemed to feel I didnt like children. Thats untrue btw, I just wanted to find the right man! We've seen less and less of each other and she has gravitated towards new friends with children of their own.
I am now pregnant (6 months) and thought she would warm to me seeing that I was now in her situation. And at first that was true, she asked me how I was etc, promised me books she had and advice. But since then Ive text her a few times asking to meet up, offering to do her dinner at my place, cinema, coffee etc and always am met with either a blank, a short 'cant make it' and never an offer of an alternative. Ive even still got her little ones birthday present from last month to give her and she knows it. Ive also seen on FB that shes very keen to meet up with a joint friend of ours who is also as pregnant as me (who I actually thought she didnt like - as she has mentioned before that she's flighty, not going to settle down, 'crazy' etc) Im sure she must have said the same of me to that friend!
I'd just like some outsiders view. Its the end isnt it?
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Mammie81 · 01/09/2010 16:22
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