I really don't know the answer to this one and whether I am expecting too much of her. My dd is 3.6 yo and very rarely plays alone. She might do so while I am cleaning up in the morning (and even this can't be guaranteed, sometimes she would rather follow me about looking forlorn!) but as soon as I have nothing to do and put my feet up for a cuppa, she is demanding that I play with her. She also seems to struggle deciding what she wants to do to entertain herself and needs me to make constant suggestions. I am getting rather exhausted and would like to be able to read a magazine or a chapter of a book while she plays happily. I feel like I am losing my own identity to games of Sylvanian Families!
What I really want to know is, is it reasonable to expect her to do this or is this fairly normal for her age (and if so, any ideas when this might change?)?
I have to say I do think that I am quite a lot to blame for this as when she was younger I must confess to not leaving her alone for a second, always encouraging her to do one activity then the next whereas DH was much happier to leave her and let her be.
I must stress that I am happy to play with her some of the time, like today we have played snap, read endless books, imagined we were on a boat (her bed was the boat) and played with some of her stuffed toys imagining they are a family, but I still feel guilty and she would still have liked me to do more.
So AIBU?
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to expect my 3.6 yo to be able to entertain herself at least sometimes?
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Upsy1981 · 06/08/2010 20:16
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