A few months ago DP went to a lapdancing club. He'd never been before but has a friend who comes from a country which apparently doesn't have anything like that who wanted to visit one before he went back home. DP's friend is very rich and he (the friend) ended up spending £600 for the 4 of them.
DP claimed not to have enjoyed the experience - he said he thought it was a rip off and doesn't like the page 3 look and he wouldn't go to one again. I gave him a big lecture about how anti-feminist those places are but he'd already had a debate with one of the dancers about it.
The other day we were out with friends and the subject of expensive clubs came up when DP chipped in with 'when I went to xxxxx (insert name of very well known lapdancing club) we ran up a £600 bill.'
I was extremely angry with him. I felt it was hugely disrespectful to boast about going to a lapdancing club in front of me. The timing was pretty bad as I'd been to the doctor earlier that day about my weight and been told I should lose 3 stones, so I was feeling more insecure than usual.
He couldn't work out why I was so annoyed. Was I being unreasonable to be annoyed or was I just being oversensitive? He isn't usually like that, but he'd had a bit to drink (a very rare occurrance), which always makes him more brash.
AIBU?
To not want DP to boast about going to a lapdancing club?
flibbertigibbert · 15/07/2010 13:57
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