I have name changed for this.
Someone I know has applied to become a foster parent. She is doing it purely for the money. She sees it as the only job that she is qualified for that will pay enough to get her out of her debts.
From experience with my DCs at her house she is precious about her nice carpets, blinds etc and always telling my toddler 'no' or 'dont touch'.
I did try to say nicely that she doesnt seem the sort that would enjoy playing hide and seek or snap and entertaining young kids all day, especially kids that need more attention through being seperated from their parents. She said no, she really couldnt be bothered with all that but she could take them to a ball pit instead or something if they needed entertaining.
Am hoping it is a whim (she has many) and that it will pass without coming to anything.
BUT if she does somehow get accepted, by saying and doing the right things at the interviews, then is there any way I can stop it without her finding out it was me????
I feel really strongly that it would be the wrong thing for the foster children, for her and also for her 14 year old son who is living at home with her. I would be very uneasy about just standing back and doing nothing.
Any advice?
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anonq · 16/05/2008 20:41
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