Tonight my son said to me "You're not a very good mum." For a moment I toyed with disagreeing with him. Then I said "I'm sorry, I'll try harder. You are the world's best boy and you deserve the world's best mum."
When he went to bed a few minutes later. I said I love you. He said "I love you too."
It's the first time he has said that, even though I have been saying it for the last couple of months.
I think sometimes what they say says more about how they feel, more about them than about us.
I felt it was a bit of a break through.
I have also realised he talks about foster carer more when he feels insecure. he wants to speak to her or talk about her, I think it is him feeling uncertain about his place in the world.
Anyone else had any experiences like this?
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Italiangreyhound · 11/07/2014 23:50
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