A really good friend of mine and her husband have just been matched with an adoptive daughter, aged 6. She is very excited, emotional and really looking forward to it. I have two children of my own (not adopted) and know what I would do if she were having a baby. I really want to give her something for herself and something for her new daughter. Now the child is easier - I will probably buy a couple of books or a small cuddly toy or a board game they can share. However, I want to get the Mum something. But, I don't want to look patronising, as if I am suggesting she needs something or she might not have thought of it. Should I get her something just for herself (wine? flowers?). I had thought of a photo frame so she can begin building memories of them as a family. What do you think? Also, any ideas for the daughter as my own children are older so I feel a bit out of touch with this age group.
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