Hi,
I am new here. We just had two LOs placed with us, 1 and 2. The 1 year old is very anxious about food, probably because of her background - neglect. However, she is not a good drinker and now she has a cold. We tried different drinks and different cups. We got her off her bottle as she used it all day and night for comfort. The problem with that was that she drank too much, was never hungry and constantly had a wet chest as she chewed on the teat and dribbled the bottle content on her/the bed/everywhere.
She loves her food and goes crazy when it comes to meals/snack time. I tried sitting her down 5 minutes earlier and give a drink first, but she gets very upset and can go into a right tizz if she gets the impression, no food is coming.
I am not sure whether I am too careful and we are simply heading for a massive power struggle, she is very strong willed. Then again i do not want to ignore her background and i do believe she is anxious about food because she was neglected. I do not want her to get stressed about food and around feeding times. She has started to trust us and now let us feed her. Something that she could/would not do at first, no matter how bad (spills ...) the "results".
I have been told that as long as there is one pee nappy within 24 hours, not to panic. Ho, hum ...
Any advice? Thank you for reading.
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How to get my LO to drink when she is anxious about food
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Serenity70 · 20/10/2012 20:10
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