Did anyone see the programme last night Adopting Abroad -Saira's Story. Found it totally fascinating and the 2nd part is on Thursday night this week. I can understand why the social workers were worried that Saira had ommitted a fair bit from her past relationships, and even her response when this was queried, wasn't that reassuring as she was talking about how much it would upset her mother, who would not have known what was in the report. When she did tell her mum she watered it down a lot but this is understandable in the circumstances. I think for the social workers it wasn't so much about the fact that she had not given a wholly truthful account about past relationships, but this starts to make them wonder if there is anything else that she has glossed over.
Saira is quiet a fiesty character and gets a bit over excited i think whereas the husband is very quiet and measured - maybe a good job, because 2 Saira's would probably make life difficult!
I was very impressed with the couple who had already adopted 2 children and they were just so matter-of-fact about everything.
I was a bit concerned about Saira's pre-occupation with the fact that a baby may have health problems that don't emerge till later on, but this can be the case with birth children, adopted children in the UK or children adopted from overseas. There are no guarantees in life and no one has a crystal ball and I think Saira needs to come to terms with this, sooner rather than later.
Just wondered what view others had on the programme.
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NanaNina · 07/09/2011 14:17
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