I think I may have found my birth mother via Facebook.
Should I send a message?
Could be totally wrong, but certain things fit.
I've never had a yearning or anything like that... more a mild curiosity. If it turned out to be her and she didn't want contact (I don't even know if I would, yet) I'd be fine with that. My adoptive parents were wonderful and I had a lovely childhood. I have no "issues" to work through and don't feel as if being given up for adoption was a rejection or anything like that.
I don't want to cause any trouble or upset, but at the same time she might welcome knowing I am fine. I would.
Yay or nay?
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CalamityKate · 12/07/2011 09:08
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