I've just arranged to meet up with my birth mother for the first time.
It was over 43 years ago when she last saw me.
We've been getting on great on the phone and are both cautious about things moving too fast. We don't want to lose each other now we've been reunited.
I'm unsure what I'm feeling and actually feel quite nervous. What if we don't like each other? We've exchanged photos, I'm concerned that I may look too much like my birth father for my bm to cope with.
I know I'm over thinking this but I've spent most of my life waiting for this to happen and now am not sure what to do.
Does anyone have any advice?
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ChildofIsis · 01/07/2011 22:26
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