My lovely friend has been matched with a little girl. I know nothing is written in stone as yet about the outcome (but fingers crossed for them both). My friend is delighted and terrified in equal measure!
I don't want to give too many details away as it's not my story to tell, but the child is young junior school-age. I so want to mark the occasion for my friend as I would any of my friends having birth children. In the past I have my friends "welcome baby" boxes containing vests, muslins, bibs, a small toy etc etc. I realise something similar won't be appropriate for this little girl as she will have her own belongings, and things my friend wishes to buy for her the little girl will no doubt want to put her own input into.
So, I thought about making her a quilt for on the bed in her new bedroom. Would this be appropriate? It is something that's personal and I could put a lot of love into, which I would enjoy doing. However, I obviously wouldn't make a big deal of it. I'd give it to my friend before she brings her daughter home and it would be up to them what they did with it. Good idea or not? Many thanks for your thoughts.
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Fayrazzled · 17/06/2011 13:32
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