HI, I AM 20YR OLD, LIVING WITH MY MUM AND 6 OTHER CHILDREN. MY MUMS HUSBAND HAS FULL CUSTODY OF HIS 12YR OLD DISABLED SON, WHO SUFFERS WITH AUTISTIC SPECTRUM DISORDER.
MY MUM HAS FOUND IT VERY DIFFICULT COPE WITH THIS. AS THE YRS GONE ON SHE'S BUILT UP HATRED FOR HIM AND DOES NOT TREAT HIM FAIRLY. ALL THE OTHER CHILDREN SEE MY MUM SHOUT, PUNISH AND BULLY HIM AND HAVE ALSO BUILT UP HATE.
I ALSO SUFFER MENTAL ILLNESS AND CAN UNDERSTAND THAT HIS BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY.
I AM SOON TO BE MARRIED TO SOMEONE WHO WORKS AND CARES FOR PEOPLE WITH SPECIAL NEEDS AND ALSO AGREES THIS CHILD IS NOT BEING TREATED AS HE SHOULD.
I FIND IT VERY HARD TO WATCH THIS GO ON AS ITS NOT REALLY MY PLACE TO SAY ANYTHING. (MOST OF THE TIME I FEEL LIKE TAKING HIM AWAY AND ME AND MY PARTNER WILL CARE FOR HIM!) ALSO IF I DARE PUT MY FEELINGS ACROSS TO THEM, I WOULD THEN BE IN THE SAME POSITION.
I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IT IS FOR MY MUM AND I WOULDN'T WANT THEM TO GET DIVORCED.
WOULD THIS EVER BE POSSIBLE WITH MY MENTAL ILLNESS? I CANT HAVE CHILDREN OF MY OWN SO THIS WAY EVERYONE'S HAPPY.
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louisecharliewright · 04/01/2011 11:20
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